If we want our relationship with God to work well, he can't be just a piece of our pie. Giving only a part of ourselves to that partnership doesn't work. We have to give our whole selves to God's plan! That doesn't mean that we can't like other activities or building relationships with other people...those things are well and good too. But if we want to have a good life here and hereafter, a solid relationship with God will require God being our first priority, the foundation of everything we are and do.